Every relationship requires effort to prevent it from breaking . A friendly relation may witness sometimes happiness and other times may be trying . The depth of feelings determine  whether to make or break .

The family witnesses the most pure relationships . However that also requires adjustment . The ideal relationship of paerent and child also requires give and take . That of love and learning by the child and compassion and patience by the parents . One must remember respect by most children and parents towards each other is also an important element of a happy relationship .

Going further into the relationship between husband and wife there should be substantial communication of aims to be achieved and ideas and values each cherishes . A similarity of views on how to bring up their children . One should not waste time in expecting perfection in each other . Romance should be found in developing some hobby . Thanking each other for being thoughtful about their likes and dislikes  . Motivating and assisting ones spouse in various activities . Reducing misunderstanding by letting the brain direct rather than the heart ie. by not letting emotion overpower one and finding the solution to the problem . For both a sense of humour and a kind nature could work wonders .

After my parents passed away I had many regrets .I always admired them but remained at loggerheads with my father . I also don’t remember how many times I said ,” I love you ,”and ” thanks”to my mother . Or discussed about their personal views on life . Now when I meet children I tell them to say those precious words to their parents as often as they can .